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Character information
Jan. 20th, 2018 06:06 pmName: Yasemin 'Yas' Ahmad
Age: 29
Birthday: 7th September
Birthplace: Tehran
Languages known: ASL, English, Farsi
Siblings: Oldest of 5
Brief Character Background:
The oldest son of a wealthy Muslim family, Yas moved to the US with his parents when he was still quite young. While Farsi is his native language, he both speaks English and signs fluently. When his youngest brother Djem was born and they learned he was Deaf, despite any work of his own he had, he volunteered to learn to sign with him as he was growing up. Djem's unplanned arrival caused more than a little tension in the household, but Yas has always done a good job of looking out for him and stopping things from escalating too much while at home.
When he went away to medical school however, things deteriorated quickly, and by the time he came back for good, having Djem move in with him seemed like the only option to keep everyone happy.
That being said, if you were to ask him if he'd prefer to live alone, he wouldn't have to think about his answer. Looking out for his brother is second nature to him, and he can sleep better knowing that Djem's not in their family home constantly walking on eggshells.
Personality:
- Incredibly loyal and hard working, Yas isn't someone who will leave a task half-finished if he can help it. He was raised to expect the best of himself and was in turn expected to do his best in everything he did. And while he did just that throughout his school and college years, it has left him with something of a perfectionist streak. If he doesn't think he can do something at 110%, he probably won't do it. This also applies to his job. He'll take on every shift where he can, but only if he knows he won't be too tired to do it properly. He probably works too much, but you try telling him not to.
It does also mean that he puts a lot of pressure on himself a lot of the time, and if he feels like something isn't up to standard, he gets quite frustrated with himself.
- However, this does also mean that he has a tendency to hold others to the same standard as himself - something passed on from his father, though Yas isn't as heavy-handed with it as he was. At work, this means making sure no one is dragging their heels needlessly, that everything's getting done in good time, and that patients are being seen to as often as possible. At home he's much the same, not letting the place become too messy and making sure anything that needs fixing or replacing is done asap. Djem's used to this and has gotten good at generally keeping the place looking good and from burning down when he's home alone.
- This being said, he very rarely lets his frustration show, and it's rarer still that he'll let anyone see him angry or upset. He's very level headed, and is surprisingly hard to provoke into an argument. He's more likely to let the other person blow up at him and then storm off or tire themselves out. He's pretty much the most frustrating person to argue with because he's able to stay calm and not rise to bait.
- While he doesn't agree with his parents all the time, he was raised to have a lot of respect for his elders, especially family members. When Djem was younger, this made Yas an ideal mediator when things got too heated; he knows how to be respectful whilst still maintaining neutrality.
- He can come across as quite serious, but it doesn't take long to find out that he has a great sense of humour, as well as still being quite playful at heart. Something that comes in handy with younger patients or with putting other patients at ease.
- Yas is also incredibly compassionate and generous, as well as being a great listener. If a stranger needs help, if he can provide it he will. A friend needs a place to crash? He'll welcome them into his house like they already live there. Djem has friends over? They're not leaving without eating a good meal first. Even when he's exhausted from work, he'll always make time for his brother if he needs him for something, or just to spend time with him.
- Generally he's the stereotype of an older sibling; responsible, reliable, and willing to go without if it means his younger siblings can get ahead. Overall he's good guy. A little serious at times but he's got a big heart.
Religious views?
Yas was raised Muslim, and still keeps that faith very close. However, while his father ruled their home with a very my-house-my-rules attitude, Yas is a little less strict with it. Djem isn't particularly religious despite his upbringing, and Yas doesn't give him a hard time about it. He knows religion isn't something you can force someone to observe, nor is it something that gives him any moral pedestal. He has gotten flack for his faith in the past, but it's something he takes pride in and something he feels very strongly about.
Fears?
The only thing that can really freak Yas out is the idea of possession - usually the demonic kind but in general, he'll pass. He can handle insects, blood and gore (you don't work in the ER if you have a weak stomach for that kind of thing) and ghosts, but any horror movie or TV show that features someone being possessed, he's leaving the room thanks.
Age: 29
Birthday: 7th September
Birthplace: Tehran
Languages known: ASL, English, Farsi
Siblings: Oldest of 5
Brief Character Background:
The oldest son of a wealthy Muslim family, Yas moved to the US with his parents when he was still quite young. While Farsi is his native language, he both speaks English and signs fluently. When his youngest brother Djem was born and they learned he was Deaf, despite any work of his own he had, he volunteered to learn to sign with him as he was growing up. Djem's unplanned arrival caused more than a little tension in the household, but Yas has always done a good job of looking out for him and stopping things from escalating too much while at home.
When he went away to medical school however, things deteriorated quickly, and by the time he came back for good, having Djem move in with him seemed like the only option to keep everyone happy.
That being said, if you were to ask him if he'd prefer to live alone, he wouldn't have to think about his answer. Looking out for his brother is second nature to him, and he can sleep better knowing that Djem's not in their family home constantly walking on eggshells.
Personality:
- Incredibly loyal and hard working, Yas isn't someone who will leave a task half-finished if he can help it. He was raised to expect the best of himself and was in turn expected to do his best in everything he did. And while he did just that throughout his school and college years, it has left him with something of a perfectionist streak. If he doesn't think he can do something at 110%, he probably won't do it. This also applies to his job. He'll take on every shift where he can, but only if he knows he won't be too tired to do it properly. He probably works too much, but you try telling him not to.
It does also mean that he puts a lot of pressure on himself a lot of the time, and if he feels like something isn't up to standard, he gets quite frustrated with himself.
- However, this does also mean that he has a tendency to hold others to the same standard as himself - something passed on from his father, though Yas isn't as heavy-handed with it as he was. At work, this means making sure no one is dragging their heels needlessly, that everything's getting done in good time, and that patients are being seen to as often as possible. At home he's much the same, not letting the place become too messy and making sure anything that needs fixing or replacing is done asap. Djem's used to this and has gotten good at generally keeping the place looking good and from burning down when he's home alone.
- This being said, he very rarely lets his frustration show, and it's rarer still that he'll let anyone see him angry or upset. He's very level headed, and is surprisingly hard to provoke into an argument. He's more likely to let the other person blow up at him and then storm off or tire themselves out. He's pretty much the most frustrating person to argue with because he's able to stay calm and not rise to bait.
- While he doesn't agree with his parents all the time, he was raised to have a lot of respect for his elders, especially family members. When Djem was younger, this made Yas an ideal mediator when things got too heated; he knows how to be respectful whilst still maintaining neutrality.
- He can come across as quite serious, but it doesn't take long to find out that he has a great sense of humour, as well as still being quite playful at heart. Something that comes in handy with younger patients or with putting other patients at ease.
- Yas is also incredibly compassionate and generous, as well as being a great listener. If a stranger needs help, if he can provide it he will. A friend needs a place to crash? He'll welcome them into his house like they already live there. Djem has friends over? They're not leaving without eating a good meal first. Even when he's exhausted from work, he'll always make time for his brother if he needs him for something, or just to spend time with him.
- Generally he's the stereotype of an older sibling; responsible, reliable, and willing to go without if it means his younger siblings can get ahead. Overall he's good guy. A little serious at times but he's got a big heart.
Religious views?
Yas was raised Muslim, and still keeps that faith very close. However, while his father ruled their home with a very my-house-my-rules attitude, Yas is a little less strict with it. Djem isn't particularly religious despite his upbringing, and Yas doesn't give him a hard time about it. He knows religion isn't something you can force someone to observe, nor is it something that gives him any moral pedestal. He has gotten flack for his faith in the past, but it's something he takes pride in and something he feels very strongly about.
Fears?
The only thing that can really freak Yas out is the idea of possession - usually the demonic kind but in general, he'll pass. He can handle insects, blood and gore (you don't work in the ER if you have a weak stomach for that kind of thing) and ghosts, but any horror movie or TV show that features someone being possessed, he's leaving the room thanks.
